Seven ceremonies, one kitchen teamWhat is served at each wedding ceremony?
Scroll to walk the wedding week. Each stop shows the usual food, a rough guest range and the live counters that suit it. Guest ranges are only a guide from how these functions usually run.
A month or more beforeRoka & Chunni
The two families meet, the bride is given her chunni and the match is fixed. The food should feel warm and homely, not like a banquet.
Tea & coffeeMithai & dry-fruit traysPakorePaneer tikkaChicken tikkaDal makhaniShahi paneerJain dal & paneerJeera rice & naan
- Guests
- 40–150 (a guide)
- Counters
- Tea & snacks, sweets table
Two or three days beforeSagan
Shagun goes from one family to the other: trays out, mithai boxes back. Most of the food here is packed and carried, then a Punjabi dinner.
Dry-fruit traysShagun ladoo boxesFruit & mithai plattersKadhai paneerButter chickenJain paneer lababdarDal & pulao
- Guests
- 80–250 (a guide)
- Counters
- Sweets, chaat
Shagun boxes by the kilo
Two days beforeMehndi & Haldi
An afternoon that goes on for hours while hands dry. Food stays light and keeps coming, so nobody leaves the mehndi chair hungry.
GolgappaAloo tikkiPapdi chaatDahi bhalleRajma chawalKadhi chawalJain chaat, no potatoLassi & shikanjvi
- Guests
- 50–200 (a guide)
- Counters
- Chaat, golgappa, lassi
The night beforeSangeet & Jaago
Late and loud: the jaago pot goes round the lanes, then everyone dances past midnight. Hot food from the tandoor and tea that never runs out.
Paneer tikkaSoya chaapTandoori chickenAmritsari fishAmritsari kulchaHot teaJalebiGajrela in winter
- Guests
- 80–300 (a guide)
- Counters
- Tandoor, tea, jalebi
Wedding morningMilni nashta
The baraat arrives, the elders embrace, and breakfast has to be hot on the minute. Nobody wants the milni held up by a late kitchen.
Chole bhatureAloo puriPakoreBread pakoraJain puri & sabziJalebiTea & coffee
- Guests
- 100–400 (a guide)
- Counters
- Chole bhature, jalebi, tea
Wedding day, noonAnand Karaj / Phere lunch
After the laavan or the pheras, a full lunch for everyone who came to bless the couple. Many Sikh families keep this lunch pure vegetarian.
Dal makhaniShahi paneerSarson da saag & makki rotiMixed vegJain dal tadkaRice, raita, saladTandoori roti & naanGulab jamunKheer
- Guests
- 150–500 (a guide)
- Counters
- Tandoor, sweets
Wedding nightReception
The biggest spread of the week: starters carried round on trays, a long buffet, live counters and a dessert table.
Hara bhara kebabPaneer tikkaChicken tikkaMutton rogan joshDal makhaniJain lababdarVeg biryaniMoong dal halwaRabri jalebiKulfi
- Guests
- 200–800+ (a guide)
- Counters
- Chaat, tandoor, kulfi, coffee, paan
One kitchen team for the whole week.
Send your dates and rough guest count for each function and Baljeet will come back with a menu and a per-plate price for each one.
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